AlfaFriends - MangloreFriends: January 2008

[- Woman in your Life: Excellent article -]

This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these factsas well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is ashuman as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or yourSister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements,

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost asmuch as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people wholove her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environmentand that kitchen,

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cookfood at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are asto what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster thanyou;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men ather workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simplybecause you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just likeyours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her someand trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knowsin your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"

I hope you will do....and just forward it to all your friends
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“You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.”
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